You were hungry
and I was sorry.

You were thirsty
and I blamed the world.

You were a stranger
and I pointed you out.

You were naked
and I turned you in.

You were sick
and I said a prayer.

You were in prison
and I wrote a poem.

 
Happy people more likely to give, survey finds

by Jenna Lyle, Christians Today
Posted: Wednesday, September 8, 2010, 11:56 (BST)

Happiness has a greater impact on a person’s giving than their wealth, according to the results of a worldwide study on charitable behaviour.

The World Giving Index, published today by the Charities Aid Foundation, was compiled from Gallup surveys conducted in 153 countries.

The surveys asked people whether they had given money to charity or volunteered in the last month, and to rank how happy they were with life on a scale of one to ten.

Australia, New Zealand and the US came out on top for overall giving, while the UK came in at eighth place. The UK remains one of the top overall givers in Europe, coming behind only Switzerland and the Netherlands.

In terms of money, the UK was also one of the top givers, with 73% of the population saying they had donated to charity.

Last year, adults in the UK donated £9.9 billion to charity, with work in the fields of medical research, hospitals and hospices, and children and young people taking the greatest share.

The UK lagged behind in terms of happiness, with an average wellbeing score of 5.6, just slightly above the global average of 5.4 and lower than the Netherlands at 7.6, Canada at 7.5, New Zealand at 7.4, Australia at 7.3, and the US at 7.2.  However, UK citizens showed an even clearer correlation than other leadin  between the happiness of the individual and the amount they gave, with those decribing themselves as "unhappy" giving very little in time or money.

The people in Turkmenistan were found to be the most generous with their time, with 61% of people saying they had volunteered, while Liberians topped the list for helping a stranger, at 76%.

The findings suggest that giving is more closely connected to a person’s happiness than how much money they have.

Richard Harrison, Director of Research at CAF, said: “We have always thought of ourselves as a charitable nation and now for the first time we can see how charitable we are compared to the rest of the world.

“Donating money to charity is something that is traditionally seen as being driven by how wealthy a person is. However, it is clear that happiness plays an important role in influencing whether people give.

“The findings suggest a positive cycle where one person gives to charity, the charity improves the happiness of the individuals they support and they in turn are more likely to give.”


 
We now have the first rough plans from the architect for the redevelopment of the church.  He's suggested three options.  Now, the way this works is that it's unlikely that any of the three will turn out to be exactly it, but we'll probably pick and mix features of all three.
Next, the plans go to the PCC (Thursday of next week).  I would then expect them to be displayed for everyone to see and comment on in church. 
 
I'm sure I'm not the only one who's had the telly on all day with the news of the miners' rescue.  And I'm sure I'm not the only one with tears in my eyes.  One thing I find really moving is the Fenix, the relief capsule, is actually built by the Chilean navy from material and plans usually employed to create warheads.  How's that for
 
I spent Sunday morning in South Woodham Ferrers, bringing the "Deanery roadshow".  My team was excellent, and I think the actual service went well - less so the question time afterwards (my fault, not the team's).

Galleywood has not yet received a deanry roadshow, so I thought I'd let you know what we were saying.

We were saying "life is like a triangle".
Each of us is called to be a full-time Christian in the image of the Trinity.  Lik God the Father, we are called to produce, create or nurture things.  Like God the Son, we are called to serve.  Lik God the Holy Spirit, we are called to communicate and help others communicate.  This is the main thing we're called to, 7 days a weeks.  We were helping people to see how their jobs do tese things (eg a web designer is both creative and helping people communicate, a full-time mum is nurturing and serving, a receptionist is serving and helping people communicate, and so on).  And we were saying that in additon to this calling, full-time Christians will have a aprticular vocation to erve their community and tell of God's love.  Brian and Paul - in pharmaceutical sales and a posty respectively - were able tspeak about being a full-tim Christian in their own workplaces. 

We were saying "life is like a semi-circle".
Imagine a semi-circle with the flat line at the top.  This is the pendulum of life as God intended: 5 or 6 days of work, then (in the Jewish scheme) one day of rest; or to look at it the other way, a day of refreshment on the first day of the week, followed by five or six days of work.  Sundays are a time to "fill up" and be equipped, ready to create, serve and tell for the rest of the week.  Churches are there to equip people to be full-time Christians,   The deanery is there to equip churches to do so.

We were saying "life is like a pentagon".
In Ephesians 4, Paul says that to each one - each one, not just Vicars - have been given five gifts: visionary leadership; te prophetic calling to speak truth to power; evangelism; pastoral care; and teaching/training for all ages.  We were trying to share with God's people at South Woodham Ferrers the vision of a church where everyone discovers which o these five gifts (or what combination of the five) they have, and fit with one another in balanced collaborative teams that run the churches that equip the people to live. 

 
Shock horror….Graffiti found in local church….

 As you know, we are giving people a chance to provide their comments on a graffiti wall at the sidef the church. Here are the comments so far:

 

Phase I – Temporary Change

    I would much rather we continue in church.
  • Let’s continue in church.   Get heating sorted.
  • We have a glorious church;  let’s use as much as we possibly can.
  • Definitely stay in the church.
  • It’s super all being in the ‘real’ church building.
  • Let us continue to be in the church.
  • BACK TO SCHOOL PLEASE
  • We need more boys!

    First of all, I want to say that I'm loving rolling worship. Despite the teething problems (and no one worships at Galleywood because it's slick and professional) rolling worship has been far better than any of the things that preceded it.   My comment is about something that has been a Galleywood problem for as long as I can remember it. What's with the wierd guest speakers? In you and Stephanie we have the two most skilled communicators we've ever had here, and yet for big services like harvest, remembrance day and mothers day we invite people who are unfocussed, not theologically well-educated and unable to communicate with any but the keenest Christian. Please, let the home team do the big occasions.


    I think Rolling Worship is brilliant and it is wonderful that we are all together, as a family should be!  Congratualtions to you, Stephanie, the PCC and Leadership Team for making this happen. 
    I have noted Andy's comments on the Notice Sheet regarding the refreshment sessions and while I agree with his sentiments, shouldn't worship take a larger part of the slices?  In each worship slice I always feel, "Oh no it's finishing I was just getting into that!"  and it is time to go and have a chat again.  Could the worship slices be longer (40 mins) and the refreshment time (20 min).  I do wonder whether the number of slices should be reduced to 2: 9.30am traditional, choral, 1662 type until 10.30 and then a refreshment break until 11am and a contemporary/family orientated slice; the refreshment break would act as a bridge between the 2 slices?
 

Phase II – Making the Church fit for Rolling Worship

       It would be great to make the kitchen bigger
  • I like hearing children.   Me too.
  • Improve kitchen.
  • We could do with baby-changing mat at least.
 

Fun(d) Raising

 Use children to great advantage – they love it.
  • Challenge Andy to a parachute jump (solo) (PP note – Andy could make it different and use the first ever cordless parachute??)
  • Family BBQ.
  • Champagne dinner.
  • Tithing.
 

Phase III – Vision 2020

 Use by Library.
  • Love idea of using one side of church for use for an interior building.
  • Could we do the same at back of church as at the chancel?
  • An audio/visual/IT infrastructure that can be easily upgraded with changing technologies.
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Pews

10/9/2010

2 Comments

 

The End of the Pew?

 From the Church of England newspaper,  Thursday, October 7th, 2010

What is the biggest obstacle to the growth of the church in Britain today? Creeping secularisation? Richard Dawkins? Infighting over women bishops or gay clergy? Let me make another suggestion: how about the continued existence of pews?
For the first 1,500 years of the church’s life, pews were extremely rare. In most medieval churches people stood or sat on the floor, with only a narrow bench around the edge of the building for seating. Eastern Orthodox churches never got around to having pews – still today in Russia and Greece, worshippers stand.

When they did gradually get introduced, pews were a mixed blessing. They were intimately connected with social division and hierarchy, with pews ranked according to social standing. The rich would have large grand stalls at the front and woe betide anyone who sat in the wrong one. They were exclusive then, and they are exclusive now. Pews today effectively exclude the 90 per cent of people who are not regular attenders of services.
The problem is that pews render the space in churches virtually unusable for anything other than around two hour-long events a week. The building becomes a curiosity, hardly visited midweek except for a few ecclesiastical tourists who want to drop by, and the cleaners. A recent survey sent unchurched visitors to slip into churches up and down the country. Ninety per cent of them found the experience uplifting, finding a real sense of community. Three-quarters said they would go back. Over 50 per cent felt comfortable and welcomed. It suggests that half of the battle is actually getting people into a church in the first place. There is also evidence to suggest that one of the main helps in getting people to feel more inclined to visit their local church is if they are familiar with the building. Imagine for a moment we could wave a magic wand and all fixed pews could be removed from churches up and down the country. Churches could then develop into open, attractive space that could become a resource for their local community. This has a number of key benefits.

At the most basic level, it could become a source of income for the church that would help it fund extra staff, such as a youth worker, administrator or community pastor. Football clubs faced this same issue in the 1970s. Clubs began to realise they were sitting on stadia that were only used on Saturday afternoons and occasionally for night matches. So they began to excavate space under the stands and build on the car parks to provide conference facilities, cinemas, bars, anything that would increase revenue for the club, realising that it was a criminal waste of resources to sit on a building that was used so seldom.
Removing pews would also make churches more welcoming. With the best will in the world, whoever designed pews did not have comfort uppermost in their minds. Many clergy during a dull sermon have at least had the reassurance of knowing that pews are very hard to fall asleep in. When people are used to visiting pubs, cinemas and theatres the least they get is a padded comfortable seat. If they are expected to sit for over an hour in church, pews can come as a bit of a shock.

More importantly for the church itself, opening the building for local community use makes it friendly, rather than foreign, territory. Local groups – further education sessions, fitness classes, after-school clubs and the like – could begin using the building regularly. Increasing numbers of churches are taking out the pews and not looking back. They are now imaginatively reordered, well decorated and lit and provide flexible, attractive meeting space for all kinds of local uses. If local people are used to visiting the church for all kinds of other activities, as they did in the Middle Ages and before, the idea of entering the building for Christian worship rather than just the gardening club becomes a little less scary.

It also makes the space much easier to use for the church itself. Any church wanting to run its own prayer groups, meditative worship, after-school club, Alpha course, fund-raising dinners, marriage preparation sessions, suddenly has flexible, pleasant space in which to do. My local church in London has removed the pews so that at various times it operates as a drop-in homeless centre, a venue for marriage preparation courses, conferences, theology classes, and on Sunday of course for regular worship that attracts many in their 20s and 30s attracted at least partly by warm, open, attractive space.
Is this yet another example of the church forsaking its rich heritage for something trendy and fleeting? Nothing of the sort. How many cathedrals have pews? Precisely. Pews were a modern invention that served the mission of the church at one time, but arguably no longer do so today. As Sir Roy Strong, former Director of the V&A says: “Until the 20th century, the country church could be altered and adapted in response to the religious changes that affected the Church of England. Now the church is all too often frozen in time.” This is an argument for the return to proper old traditions of the church, with churches as genuine community spaces, for the service of the whole community and the mission of the church.
Such a change need not sacrifice a sense of the sacred. Sanctuaries and side chapels can be kept apart, almost as a reminder of the origins and true nature of the building for those who use it – a gentle nudge that this is not just another functional building, but a place where prayer has been offered for centuries, a reminder that even in the middle of an exercise class, we are in the presence of God. Art exhibitions, sensitive use of decoration, even noticeboards can all serve as semi-permanent witnesses to the faith for those who use the building.
If we are serious about the survival and future of the church, we need to thank the pews for their sterling service, but tell them politely that their day is over.

Graham Tomlin
is Dean of St Mellitus College

 
A particularly good Sunday, I think.  Congratulations to the choir on the Taize service: you pulled it off, it was like being in southern France.  (Seriously, you made those harmonies work for you beautifully - let's do that again).  I received a lot of good feedback after the sermon in the middle section - I don't intend to ask people to stand to respond on a regular basis, but it was clearly something that you found helpful this time.  And it seems like my comments about being "good news people" not bad news people struck a chord too, when the church is or appears to be giving an awaful lot of bad news.  And (despite my failure to brief them completely) the team from SYM were excellent.  As for Luke on keyboards - what a revelation!  Good on you.

A word about numbers in the mornings - we're now running at a level considerably above this time last year, and obviously that's a good thing, but it does make the back of the building feel even more cramped.  The remaining pews will be out soon, and the NMW team meeting last night suggested moving the coffee-table to the centre, and creating a "prayer chapel" behind a screen at the back of the north aisle, with candles etc for people who just need a quiet moment.  Maybe that will help.

The evening was our Alpha Celebration.  Good things to eat, a tremendously moving testimony from Steve (thanks Steve, I don't think I'd heard your story before), and beautiful music from Chris.  And me ta Good numbers have signed up, so do pray for Alpha on Wednesday evenings!
 
The puritan poet (1592-1644) wrote:

Without Thy presence, earth gives no reflection:
Without Thy presence, sea affords no treasure;
Without Thy presence, air's a rank infection;
Without Thy presence, heaven itself no pleasure:
If not possess'd, if not enjoyed in Thee,
What's earth, or sea, or air, or heaven to me?

The highest honours that the world can boast,
Are subjects far too low for my desire;
Its brightest gleams of glory are, at most,
But dying sparkles of Thy living fire:
The brightest flames that earth can kindle, be
But nightly glowworms, if compared to Thee.

Without Thy presence, wealth is bags of cares;
Wisdom, but folly; joy, disquiet, sadness;
Friendship is treason, and delights are snares;
Pleasures, but pain; and mirth, but pleasing madness:
Without Thee, Lord, things be not what they be,
Nor have their being when compared with Thee.